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Supper
Saturday,
October 7, 2006
Sue Scott: Our daughter Amanda is 13 and she
spends most of her time upstairs in her room on the Internet or on her
cellphone. She sends us e-mails now and then, you know, short little e-mails,
like what she wants for dinner. That sort of thing. So I … I run down to the
supermarket to get it. And, we do try to eat together. And she does have a
webcam. So, we try to do things together. And, we're all over her MySpace
page. And, I read her blog every day. So…
GK: When…When were you last in her room? Your
daughter’s room?
SS: Uh… In her room? You mean, like — inside?
GK: Inside, yes.
SS: Uh… I… I don't think she’d like that.
GK: Well, maybe you should just knock on her
door--just ask her if she’d like to come down and have supper with you.
SS: You… you mean, like— come down here?
GK: Yeah, like down here.
SS: Oh, I… I don't think that would be a good
idea.
GK: Why?
SS: Well, I called her on the… on the way home it went
right into voicemail. But you know, I guess I could post a message on her
chat board. I mean she usually gets back to me within a couple of days.
GK: No, Nooooo. Supper. Supper. It's such a good
idea. Even if you're carrying on a lot of conversation with your children by other
media, supper is a good platform for getting to know each other. It can be
tough sometimes … a little rocky, you know, and people have words and so
forth …
SS: Oh, uh, could you pass the potatoes, please,
darling.
SS (TEEN): (SNARL) You ruined my life!!! I hate
you!!!
GK: Okay, okay, but… but… but supper with the
family—it’s a tradition that’s worth keeping.
(DIAL NUMBER. TWO RINGS. SS (TEEN)
VOICE: Yeah, it's me, so leave a message. Whatever. (BEEP)
SS: Uh, darling, just
thought it'd be lovely if we all could sit down and have supper tonight. You
know. In real time? At the table?
GK: Supper. In real time! It doesn't have to be
fancy. It can be simple. It could be as simple as a… as a lentil loaf. Just
macaroni and cheese… with lentils. Supper! You have to be there… in real
time. So, come to supper. A message from Americans For Evening Meals.
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